1. Toxic fans destroy what they claim to love. It's not what you love, but how you love it.
2. Clueless players only get clues with experience. If they refuse to make an effort, that's on them.

Though, if you want to keep your favorite teamwork games alive in the face of endless competition/clones, it's on you (and me, and everyone else) to bring the new folk along, include them, teach'm, train'm, guide'm, etc. This may come as a shock, but players are rumored to be human beings in the real.

Find a community, help recruit, participate, learn to give as much or more than you take. Oddly, not unlike real life. Unless you know, you're socially, intellectually, and emotionally stunted.