i’m not the easiest person to get to know, and i think it’s fair to say that upfront so nobody feels confused later

i’ve been dealing with a lot in my life for a long time, and it hasn’t really let up. i don’t talk about most of it, and i’m not looking for pity or attention, but it does affect how i come across and how i react sometimes

i can be blunt without meaning to be. i don’t always phrase things softly, especially over text, and it can sound harsher than it actually is. if i’m talking to you, i’m not trying to put you down or start something

i also get overwhelmed easier than i’d like. if something feels negative or directed at me, i might react more strongly than expected. it’s not about you as much as it is me being used to things going that way

i don’t have a strong support system, so i spend most of my time alone. that means i value the people i do talk to, even if i’m not always great at showing it in a normal way

i’m trying to get better and stay steady, but it’s a process. all i really ask is a bit of patience and basic respect, the same thing i try to give back

if you’re cool with that, then we’ll probably get along just fine

- I do not tolerate dishonesty or insincerity in relationships, including individuals who present themselves as friends without genuine intent.

- I do not tolerate any form of bullying, harassment, or targeted mistreatment.

- I do not tolerate being treated with hostility, disrespect, or unwarranted negativity.

- I do not tolerate being used, misrepresented, or reduced to a tool for others’ personal agendas or narratives.

- I do not tolerate individuals who make assumptions without seeking clarification or attempting to understand me directly.

- I do not tolerate a lack of critical thinking, especially when people accept information at face value without question or verification.

- I do not tolerate being unfairly labeled as “playing the victim,” particularly when the issue stems from communication difficulties rather than intent.

- I do not tolerate ignorance paired with cruelty, especially when it manifests as bias, false accusations, or harmful generalizations.

- I do not tolerate individuals who project unfounded labels or judgments without evidence or understanding.

- Anyone who engages in these behaviors will be removed from my space without exception.

Closing Statement

If you recognize these behaviors in yourself, understand that they contribute to the kind of environment that has caused harm and distress in my experiences online. While I sincerely hope you choose growth, accountability, and self-awareness, I will not engage with or tolerate such conduct moving forward. My boundaries are firm, and my well-being is not open for compromise.